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Baby and child sleep: routines by age

A familiar wind-down can make evenings more predictable, while sleep needs and patterns change. These are general starting points, not a sleep-training programme.

General educational guidance. Not clinician-reviewed or a substitute for individual medical advice.

THE USEFUL STARTING POINT

Notice what leads into bedtime: activity, comfort and the order of familiar steps. Use the age sections as general guidance, not a promise that a routine will prevent waking.

Look at the whole evening

Notice what leads into bedtime: activity, comfort and the order of familiar steps. Use the age sections as general guidance, not a promise that a routine will prevent waking.

0–6 months

A safe place for every sleep

Keep sleep simple, clear, and close.

Place your baby on their back in a separate cot with a firm, flat mattress. Keep pillows, toys, loose bedding, and bumpers out.

Your everyday rhythm

Follow sleepy cues and keep overnight interactions quiet. Frequent waking is common.

Make it safe

Share a room for the first 6 months. Avoid falling asleep with your baby on a sofa or armchair.

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6–12 months

Familiar cues, safer sleep

A calm wind-down while keeping the cot clear.

Continue to put your baby down on their back on a firm, flat mattress in their own clear sleep space.

Your everyday rhythm

Try a feed, a quiet book, and a short song. Night waking can still happen.

Make it safe

Do not add pillows, soft toys, or positioners to help your baby sleep.

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1–2 years

A little rhythm to rest

Familiar steps make bedtime more predictable.

Choose a calm, repeatable wind-down: clean teeth, a story, and a song. Adapt timing to your child’s sleep cues.

Your everyday rhythm

Keep daytime and bedtime routines reasonably consistent.

Make it safe

Keep cords and climbing hazards away from the sleeping area. Follow the cot’s height and climbing limits.

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2–3 years

A softer end to the day

Predictable bedtime steps for busy little minds.

Use a short sequence your child knows: clean teeth, pyjamas, a story, and a goodnight phrase.

Your everyday rhythm

Offer a small choice, such as which book to read, while keeping the routine consistent.

When to ask for help

Discuss persistent sleep problems, loud snoring, or breathing pauses with your child’s clinician.

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3–5 years

Rest for tomorrow’s adventures

A steady wind-down with room for reassurance.

Keep bedtime steps familiar and allow a short space to talk about the day.

Your everyday rhythm

Choose quiet activities before bed and keep screens out of the wind-down routine.

When to ask for help

Seek advice for persistent sleep difficulties, loud snoring, or breathing pauses.

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5–12 years

Rest is part of growing

Routines that balance school, interests, and downtime.

Agree on a regular wind-down and wake time that allows enough rest. Adjust routines as your child grows.

Your everyday rhythm

Keep devices away from bedtime and make space for quiet reading or conversation.

When to ask for help

Discuss ongoing daytime tiredness, persistent insomnia, loud snoring, or breathing pauses with a clinician.

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Sources and further reading

A question parents ask

Will a bedtime routine stop night waking?

There is no guarantee. Sleep changes with development and circumstances. Seek individual advice if you are worried about breathing, feeding, wellbeing or a persistent sleep concern.

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